Tuesday, November 15, 2011
25 weeks pregnant and feeling VERY unattractive. Husband isn't helping much. Any advice?
I've put on quite a bit of weight since my pregnancy (40 pounds to be exact). Most of it is in my belly but I also have a lot in my hips (can anyone say saddlebags??). Anyways, I'm getting to the point where nothing fits right anymore, I'm getting a lot of cellulite, my complexion is just yucky and I just feel so fat and unattractive. Before I was pregnant my husband was all over me all the time. He would hug on me and call me beautiful and was in the mood 24/7. Now he rarely wants , he just wants oral (sorry if tmi). And I like to walk around in an oversized shirt and underwear when I'm at home (because it is what is comfortable right now) and I just catch him staring at me sometimes in disgust. I call him on it and say "Yeah, I know I'm fat and unattractive right now." And he just smiles and goes on about his business. He doesn't reure me that I'm not or even try to lie about it. I've told him a few times about how I feel and he said that he isn't acting differently but he is. And besides, I don't want to have to force a compliment out of him. Any advice on how I go about feeling better? Anyone else experienced this with their partner? I'm just so upset right now. :(
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