Help please i need answers by tomorrow!!?

theres this guy that ive had this crush on for the past year and he doesnt seem to show any interest so like we texted once and i said "if u dnt like me just say no" and he said "a no if i feel the way you feel??" but like we cant date ....for reasons... n he wants to do things right cuz he is really spiritual n he said "lets wait like for 4 years n see what happens" but now my mom wants to save up money to move to an hour away from my hometown.. n im not gunna be able to see him as often i dont know if thats good or bad ?? i really like him and one time i cried in front of him for some problems and he was there i could see in his eyes the pain it caused him to see me crying before that he whispered "please dont cry" and i just smiled n he knew it was his fault but i didnt say anything h ehelped me .. n i gave him a hug .. once he also said "you smell good someimes i wish i could smell your hair" and im like "ok?" and then the same day i was crying i was gunna leave so i shook his hand cuz his parents were there instead of hugging him..and he took a firm grip of my hand and didnt let go he held my hand strongly as if uring me that things would be ok and to just give him time. after i left i texted him saying thanks n he said no problem but thatnkss god too cuz if it wasnt for his help i dont know what wouldve happened...wht did he mean by that?? i just said hehe yea goodnite... so these little hints i dont know what they mean...but someetimes hee doesnt even talk to me he ignores me completely i dont know why..i get rfustrated he says i got a problem with overthinking and i should try to not think ..but sometimes that doesnt help much.. i cant picture myself with noone else but him and he doesnt understand that..he knows i like him but he doesnt know i let my self fall hard for him im in love with him.. n later i found out he used to like my best friend..so what the heck ?? but he says he doesnt anymore..n once we were talkin by phone he said "i dont like her anymore now i have my bestfriend(which is me) and she is really pretty like really really pretty but im trying to help her with everything she goes thru. then later he acts completely different i dont understand boys!!!! HELP!