E-BAY, SELLING, OTHER SITES, PAYPAL SCAM>?

HELLO ALL. I HAVE SOLD ON E-BAY FOR ABOUT 5-YEARS. I HAVE HAD A DISPUTE GOING FOR ABOUT 3 1/2 MONTHS ON THIS ITEM I SHIPPED OVERSEAS. PAYPAL SEEN FIT TO RULE IN THIS PERSONS FAV. NOW OUT ITEM, COST AND HAD TO REFUND MONEY, SELLER NEVER DID SEND BACK ITEM AS PROMISED, I CONTACTED PAYPAL ABOUT THIS ABD THEY SAID THEY WOULD LOOK INTO IT. IT'S GOING ON 6-MONTHS NOW. I GIVE IT. E-BAY & PAYPAL JUST POINT BLANK IF THE CUSTOMER HAS A TINY DISPUTE THEY WIN, I HAVE HAVE LITTLE DISPUTES AND ALWAYS 100% MADE IT RIGHT, AND REC. POS. FEEDBACK. I DON'T SELL AFTERMARKET CHEAP STUFF, HOME STUFF, WHOLE SELL, DROP SHIP, JUST AN AVARAGE JOE, WHOM LIKES TO BUY AND SELL IN SPARE TIME. DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE A COMMUNITY IS THAT IS LIKE E-BAY, AND OFFERS THE SAME PROTECTION, BUT IS FARE. E-BAY HAS GONE DOWN HILL SINCE 01 -NOW IN O3 THEY SEAMED TO BE GETTING IT TOGEATHER, BUT THATS FEW YEARS E-BAY AND PAYPAL HAS TEAMED UP, AND IT IS A NIGHTMARE. THANK YOU ALL. I COULD GO ON AND ON ABOUT THIS STORY, BUT FOR THOSE OF YOU READING IT, SURE YOU UNDERSTAND IF YOU HAVE HAD A PROBLEM IN THE PAST COUPLE OF YEARS. THANKS