Men... what makes the perfect long term girlfriend?

Ive been in my relationship for four years we have a little boy, although we love each other very much things are abit dead, I make fantastic dinners every night do all the housework do everything for both him and our son I let him do what he wants, my body hasn't changed what so ever since pregnancy, I'm an ex car show/glamour model, now I teach pole dance and I'm a party organizer, he ist to appreciate that so much, I wanna know how to be perfect I'll do that for a while n if that doesn't fix things I gotta leave I can't waist my life anymore x